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5x7 Folded Card

Sunday, June 6, 2010
happy birthday...

and to my favorite sister. in honor of the twenty-five years that you now are...and in honor of how much i miss you...and in honor of the art of procrastinating all the stuff i should be doing but don't want to be...i give you...
25 things that we could be doing right now if you were here (not trying to imply that being here is better than being there...but there is diet mt. dew here (yum). and taco seasoning (eww). and target. so i think it pretty much goes without saying)
1. drinking a cold _______ on the back deck. (the dew or a daiquiri...it's your birthday...you get to choose!)
2. sharing what God is teaching us.
3. watching sytycd on dvr. and then trying out the choreography. and then commenting in the chatroom (dancin'kelito. holla.)
4. laughing about favorite memories.
5. working out with jillian. ok, so YOU working out with jillian. i would be cheering you on.
6. ganging up on charlie. by way of multiple verbal body slams.
7. hanging out with our friends. monica, chandler, joey, phoebe, ross, and rachel.
8. taking a walk.
9. sharing a smoothie and bread samples at the juice shop/great harvest.
10. breaking it down to whatever craziness is in your itunes library.
11. shopping. "ooh, women be shoppin'!"
12. singing everyone's favorite..."the sheep song".
13. dying our hair. ok, so dying YOUR hair. we'll read the instructions and make sure hair loss is not a potential side effect.
14. eating sour patch kids till our tongues burn (or at least till charlie's does).
15. going somewhere. anywhere. and getting lost on the way.
16. comparing books we've been reading.
17. playing with maddie and her "waterandsandtable".
18. watching taylor do new things every day.
19. cooking one of your many specialties. maybe not the homemade oatmeal cookies lest they end up in lily's treat jar again.
20. watching "grease". and eating popcorn and skittles.
21. talking on the phone. seriously. even if you were in the same room with me.
22. getting a pedicure.
23. eating boulevard bagels for at least 2 out of 3 meals a day. (i know, technically you couldn't do that here...but a girl can dream, right?)
24. lying in the sun. on the beach. all day. (while i'm dreaming...)
25. and generally just enjoying each other's company. in the same room. so close i could put my feet on you. ha!
love you, little sister and best friend. hope your day is so happy.
Monday, June 15, 2009
you
you are.
a comforter. a comedian. an example of Christ.
you share.
your thoughts. your feelings. your life.
with me.
you keep me.
grounded. laughing. living life to the fullest.
you make.
strangers smile. others feel at ease. mistakes and are quick to ask for forgiveness.
you see.
the big picture. the beauty in nature. the importance of traditions.
you show me.
grace. love. God's heart where i don't always see it.
you think i'm.
better. prettier. smarter. more talented.
than i think i am.
you listen to me.
cry. vent. dream.
you bring.
spontanaeity. fun. relaxation.
into my life.
you know.
my strengths. my flaws. my heart.
you believe.
that you live with two princesses. that you can accomplish anything you set out to do. that God's love for you is real. and huge. and limitless.
you help me.
parent our daughter. clean our house. "close my windows".
you are.
my true love. my best friend. my husband.
i love YOU, charlie. thank you for the past 7 years of marriage. and the past 12 years of life together.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
brought to you by the letter "p" & the number "30"
party...
I actually started celebrating last month with my 90's dance party. My dear and slightly older (her birthday was in March) friend Whitney and I were co-celebrated by several friends at what basically turned out to be the party of the year. I mean what could be better than dancing under the stars, music reminiscent of our middle and high school days, a Chick-Fil-A nugget tray, "Cha Cha Slide" and "Soulja Boy" on repeat, and one of Millie's world-famous cakes? Nothing, I tell you. It was truly a winning combination. Thanks to Whit for breaking it down with me birthday style. Thanks to our sweet husbands for planning the event. Thanks to Millie for really planning the event (just kidding Charlie and Matt...I know it wouldn't have happened without your "vision"). Thanks to our wonderful friends who came and m.c. hammered the night away with us.

presents...
My birthday festivities continued this past weekend when my family got together for lunch, complete with homemade icecream. Yum! While we were in Greenville, one of my best friends, Sara, gave me her birthday gift. It is a photobook titled, "Thirty Reasons I Thank God You Are My Best Friend". It was definitely one of the most thoughtful gifts I've ever received. And 30 reasons are a lot of reasons. You try to think of 30 sincere things about one of your friends and see if you can do it. Betcha can't. But Sara's thoughtfulness abounds. She probably could have done 60 reasons. But, I bet she's glad I'm not 60. I am too, for that matter.
I was also surprised with a gift from one of my other best friends. My sister did it again...another huge bouquet of multi-colored roses delivered to me at work. They are so beautiful! And I am so grateful. For the roses, but especially for her. She also spoiled me with a shout-out on her blog yesterday...complete with her precious children singing "Happy Birthday" to me. Ya'll know I think she is amazing. And she comes home in just a few weeks!!

And to top it all off, my sweet husband gave me a gift that I have been hoping for for a long time. I didn't think I'd be getting one anytime soon, so this was quite a surprise. I am so excited...and he was just as excited to give it to me. Thank you, Charlie!
I received several other special gifts as well as cards, emails, texts, and messages that truly made me feel loved.
picnic & phoenix...
I know I am pregnant, but I think I ate for more than two yesterday. My day started out with a Chick-fil-A biscuit delivered by my sweet friend Amy--always a great way to start the day! Then, Melissa brought the kids to my school and we had a picnic lunch in the cafeteria. Melissa's homemade chicken salad and chocolate cupcakes surely put the school pizza to shame. She has always made sure I have special treats on my birthday. Last night Charlie and I got to go on a dinner date to Phoenix, one of my favorites--so yummy!
potty...
Well, it's hard to post without including a story about Maddie. In addition to all the gifts I received, she also got a package in the mail on my birthday. Her very own potty seat. It is very plush for extra bottom comfort. And it has ducks on it. And now Maddie can sit on the toilet without falling in. All that to say, it's pretty much the coolest thing she's ever seen. As soon as she opened it, she wanted to try it out. I put it on the downstairs toilet and she sat, smiling ear to ear. And she sat. And she sat. And she sat some more. But not without entertainment. She went through about 8 magazines from the basket in the bathroom, and whenever I stuck my head in to check on her she said "Not all done, Mommy. Not all done." In fact, once she even added, with her finger pointed toward the kitchen, "Go cook, Mommy." After about 15 minutes had passed, Charlie got home and she was excited all over again for him to see her sitting on the potty. Finally after about 5 more minutes, we hear, "All done, Daddy!" When Charlie went in to help her, he discovered that she had scooted off the toilet by herself and begun to pull her bloomers and skirt back up. And she had pee-peed! Well, not actually in the potty. More like right in front of the potty. On the floor. And on her clothes. And on her reading assortment she had tossed on the floor. Oh well...almost:-)
So, all in all, turning 30 hasn't been so bad. I am just so thankful for all the blessings in my life and the way God has expressed His love for me through the relationships He's given me. Those are definitely the best gifts.
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Friday, November 21, 2008
addendum
Friday, November 7, 2008
18 reasons
If you know her, you know all this stuff is true. If you don't, betcha wish you did!
Love you, Jen. Love you Neen Neen.Sunday, November 2, 2008
costuming it up!
I know several of you all had those, so, please don't get offended. But seriously...please tell me why anyone needs a face on their face and on their chest. I also loved the masquerade of performing. There's just something magical about eyelining those little tails on the corners of my eyes while wearing a very regal, very poofy tutu. And of course, Jenny and I spent countless hours playing dress up. I can't even begin to tell you how in-depth we went with some of our "shows". We're talking multiple acts, playbills, you get the picture. Since Jenny was six years my junior, I was often the director/producer/choreographer, and of course the co-star. Maybe someday I'll post some photos of us in all our grandeur.
Also, this year's video footage was just as hilarious as last year's. I tried to post clips of the chaos from both years, but I couldn't get '07 to load. So here's 2008...Especially amusing is the chain reaction of crying babies. Note that Maddie is keeping her distance.
Monday, September 15, 2008
partyin' girl
hi. i'm maddie in case you didn't know.
the big celebration was for elizabeth's wedding. elizabeth is my daddy's only girl cousin. so this was a big deal. here is elizabeth with 7 of the 9 cousins--uncle jimmy could not come because of work & uncle wally had to leave early to take the sick ring bearer home:-( i think elizabeth is a beautiful princess!
we had a party every night we were there! i wondered if it was because people from ohio were more fun than people in north carolina. daddy said it was because it was the heritage family
the first party was at a big park full of old planes and trains and cars.
the next party was just for us girls. a nice lady gave mommy's feet a bath while i got a great big remote all to myself! it was so much fun, only i couldn't ever find the tv and our chair was bumpy.
that night we got to dress fancy. don'tcha think we look fancy?
mommy told me that uncle kirby gave a speech that made daddy cry. something about how special little girls are. that must mean i am pretty special.
after that party, we went to another one. it was at uncle kirby and aunt rita's house. that night i slept in three different places. talk about confusing.
then came the big day! we did some park-exploring and some hotel pool swimming before we had to get fancy again. i liked to stick the very tiny tip of my big toe in and tell grandpa it was "hot."
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
school's in


Sunday, July 13, 2008
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
our weekend away



Sunday, May 11, 2008
happy mother's day
My Grandma died when I was in college. It makes me sad that she was not here to see me get married or to meet her great-granddaughter, but it makes me happy to know she is in Heaven with my Grandpa--living her eternal life with no pain....probably watching an extended marathon of Golden Girls. I remember her smile and her laugh and all the fun I had when I was with her.

rubber ducky, you're the one...

Tuesday, May 6, 2008
is your sister as cool as mine?
and this. field chunks are always the smart option. lily & dakota are thankful that they didn't have to go to bed hungry tonight.
and these. maddie is thankful she didn't have to go to bed bare-bottomed tonight.
isn't she amazing? what would i do without this girl?
Sunday, May 4, 2008
happy birthday day, madison grace
for nine months we
prayed for you
dreamt about you
couldn’t wait for your arrival
your daddy
whispered your name against mommy’s tummy
laughed when he felt your strong feet kick
your mommy
sang lullabies, hoping you could hear
draped her hand across her belly, longing to hold you
and our love for you grew
april 23rd came and went
you waited
we waited
finally you came
may 4
on that day
our lily bloomed
daddy helped mommy stay calm
family and friends arrived
mommy cried
daddy cried
we cradled you in our arms
and looked into your eyes
and saw your little chest move to the rhythm that had greeted us at every weekly appointment
we thanked God for each tiny toe
and each tiny finger
on that day
God let us experience a miracle
and our love for you grew
we buckled you in and brought you home
beautiful
delicate
you
we learned
to interpret cries
to swaddle
to rock
to feed
to stay awake
to stroke your forehead to put you to sleep
that you weren’t so fragile after all
and our love for you grew
days passed quickly
but slowly at the same time
in your first month you
celebrated
vacationed
were bathed
met new family and friends
picnicked
went to the doctor
cruised for dolphins
cheered for pirate baseball
rode a trolley
roadtripped
snuggled 
and our love for you grewsummer days passed
into month two
did you know that you went to a summer soiree?
and that you snored when you slept?
and that your smile made your sweet face even sweeter?
and our love for you grewsparkles in the sky to celebrate month three

noticed
paid close attention
to the green grass in front of the washington monument
to the sea of orange in the orioles stands
to the blue elephant on your bouncy seat
to your black dog and brown dog outside your window
to the dainty china cups at the o’henry tea time

the view was good
but you sensed there was more
so tired of staying put
in one place
so the rolling began
you rolled
and rolled
and rolled
and our love for you grew
salt water and sand
tickled toes and fingers
in your fourth month

naps on the beachdips in the pool
walks during sunset
this is the life
your little round mouth
gave giggles and coos
music to our ears
we discovered 2 teeth
those sneaky little things
came in fast
grayson and brent and conner
soon after came brooke and mac and mary elizabeth
new foods tasted
rice cereal and sweet potatoes and pears (to name a few)
new sounds made
“aaarrrggghhh” was a favorite (especially during football season)
new places visited
the fair and rockbridge
new daytime routine
aunt neen neen came to keep you
(another) new view
you sat up all by yourself
or big...chicken

the sixth month
you were restless
you took off
crawling
is
the coolest
you were
unstoppable
but
a swaddled
cuddly
baby yesterday?
and our love for you grewfaster
and
faster
you crawled into month seven
your sweet and funny personality shined
through your expressions and your laugh
nothing sweeter
than the sound of your
giggle
and our love for you grewmore celebrations in month eight
Jesus’ birthday
and daddy’s birthday
colored lights and carols
christmas trees and wrapping paper
your big dark eyes took everything in

reaching for tree branches
reaching for the top of the crib (you pulled yourself up!)
reaching for your first baby doll
reaching up to be held by mommy or daddy
soon you will be
reaching for the stars
nine months of lifeeight little teeth
seven cheerios on your tray
six books before bedtime (you love to read!)
five big gulps from your sippee cup that you held by yourself
four little friends on our small group weekend in the mountains
three yucky ear infections
two fun snow days
one favorite game…peek-a-boo


and our love for you grew
clapping
and
squealing
all the time
happy girl
bouncing girl
dancing girl

ten months passedsurprisingly quickly
then you surprised us
with a first step on your own
mostly, though, you hold finger tips
and cruise everywhere
and our love for you grew
your first birthday
right around the corner
and around the corner
you chase mommy and daddy
and we chase you
and you laugh
and laugh
now shy at firstyou smile bashfully
and fold your little hands
a big grin follows
and sticks around
you were really sick
we were really sad
it broke our hearts to see
your pain
we pray
will always be comforted by God
you can trust in Him
and not be afraid
he has a plan for your life
a good plan
he loves you so much
and we do too
and our love for you grew
twelve months of lifejoyful life
abundant life
life with you
is never dull
life with you
makes us thankful
life with you
reminds us to slow down
and notice the small things
along the way
you love people well
and you are well loved
shades of pink on a Sunday
pastel bonnet and dress
rosy cheeks
cotton candy lips
family and friends and church promised
to raise you in Christ
we hear you saybye
bah
wuh (wuff)
rah
we begin to count
you raise your arms to cheer
we raise our arms to cheer
repeat
and repeat
and repeat
our beautiful birthday girl
one year old today
we blinked
and twelve months passed
we thank God for you today
and every day
you
are
a
gift
with you
life is different
harder
better
you fit our family
perfectly
only you
fill that maddie-shaped hole
in our lives
in our hearts




